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If you have landed here, you have probably seen the sales page for Mind Makeover and want a straight answer before you spend your money. That is fair. Below I have answered the questions people most often ask about it, using only what the author and her sales page actually say, plus my honest view at the end.
Mind Makeover (full title: Mind Makeover: How Inner Game Gets the Guy, with "How Inner Game Gets the Guy" on the cover) is a dating and relationship e-book for women. (The link is my affiliate link.) It is sold on the Real Women Real Love website.
Its big idea is that it is not about what you should do, say or look like to get a man. It is about how to be. The author's view is that how you feel about yourself, who you are and what you believe you deserve shape what happens to you with men far more than your looks or your past.
Amy Waterman. She has been writing about dating and relationships for over a decade and is the author or co-author of ten dating advice books, including titles with the dating site MeetYourSweet.com. She has also written a great many articles about men, attraction, dating, chemistry and marriage. She describes herself, with a wink, as someone who wanted to be Carrie Bradshaw and turned into Murphy Brown: a bit sharper, a bit more committed to facts.
Inner game is your mindset: your confidence, your self-worth, how ready you are for love and the energy you bring into a room. Outer game is the tactics (texts, outfits, opening lines). Mind Makeover is almost entirely about the inner side. The idea is that when the foundation is solid, the flirting and small talk follow more naturally.
The book is built on what Amy calls the Four Pillars, and it asks you some searching questions about yourself. Her published list of topics includes:
That is only part of the list. Other topics cover first impressions, the "friends zone," bad boys, playing hard to get and what men wish women understood about them.
Five bonus e-books come with the main book:
No. Mind Makeover is a 129-page e-book, and the five bonuses are e-books too. You read it at your own pace.
The book is $37, and the five bonuses are included in that price.
On the order page there is also a box for a membership called Amazing Self, a monthly edition on becoming the best version of yourself. The box is ticked when the page opens. The first edition is free, and after the first month it costs $37 per month. You can cancel at any time. If you do not want it, untick the box and you pay the $37 for the book only. I mention this so nobody is surprised.
Yes. The sales page says that if you have given the program your best shot and it is not what you wanted or expected, you can contact Amy within 8 weeks of your purchase for a full refund.
Yes. It is a real e-book by a named author with a long writing history in this field, and you pay through ClickBank, the online retailer that sells it, with an 8-week refund window. What it is not is a magic fix, and it does not claim to be. Amy herself says no one can hand you love on a platter.
Honestly, it depends on you. This is a book that asks you to look at yourself and change some habits of thought, and it will only help if you do that work. Nobody can promise you will meet someone, and the book does not need to make that promise to be useful.
Here is what some of Amy's readers have said about her advice:
"I've not only used your advice to meet and attract the love of my life, I've gained confidence in myself that I never had before. I'm no longer as shy around men as I used to be and I really feel valuable as a person."
Sarah Donaldson, Portland, Oregon, USA
"Your tips have not only reminded me of the power of my own confidence, but have given me invaluable help on how to create interest in a man, and to keep it!"
Kim Collier, USA
Their experiences are their own, and results vary from person to person.
If you want tactics, skip it. If you are a woman who keeps meeting the wrong men, or who walks into every date already expecting it to go wrong, I think it is worth $37. It is warm, direct and refreshingly free of the "you are not doing enough" tone that so much dating advice has. It treats you as someone with real value, not a project to fix.
The 8-week guarantee also means the risk is small if you give it an honest try. If that sounds like what you need, you can read more about Mind Makeover here.