by Amy Waterman
Dating SHOULD be easy.
There's enough dating advice online, in women's magazines, and on talk shows to solve every woman's problems.
So why aren't we all happily married to our perfect mate?
I asked myself this question recently when yet another lovely woman in her forties introduced herself to me, saying that she'd been single for the past decade and she was ready to give up on men.
"It's too much work," she said. "I can't sit around waiting for a man to drop onto my front doorstep. I've got to get on with my life. And if that means that I don't end up meeting someone, so be it." She shrugged.
My heart dropped when she said that.
I know it's difficult to meet men (and even more difficult to find one worth your time), but that doesn't mean you have to GIVE UP on love.
Would you resign yourself to a lifetime alone just because it's "easier" staying single?
I knew what I had to do.
Most of us women don't need more dating advice.
We've been married or in a serious relationship before. We're not novices. We know more about men than a lot of people!
But what we DON'T know is why love isn't happening as easily for us this time around.
There's something tripping us up. Maybe there just aren't as many good men around these days. Maybe we're just not sending off the right vibes. Maybe the dating world has moved on. Maybe it's old-fashioned to expect courtship and marriage anymore.
What we need is some sort of diagnostic tool to hone in on the REAL reason our love life seems stuck in first gear.
Luckily, I knew just the thing...
I've spent the past decade devouring dating research as part of my quest to unravel what modern women need to know about love.
I can't count the number of times I've read about some "magical secret" that would trigger a man's psychological commitment switch, or some "secret power" that would enable a woman to seduce any man she laid eyes on.
To me, those kinds of tricks always seemed rather silly.
Like many women, I didn't want power over men. I just wanted to be HAPPY. And part of "being happy" was having someone - just one man, thank you very much - to share my life with!
My needs were quite simple: all I wanted was someone I could trust, who loved me like I loved him, and who would be there for me no matter what. That's it.
And I knew that I wasn't alone. Most women, if they're honest with themselves, want the same thing.
So why, then, was it still so hard?
Why couldn't all the dating advice in the world change the fact that so many of us women were still on our own with no decent prospects in sight?
I found the answer unexpectedly. It wasn't in some dating manual or relationships guide. It was in a classic self-help book published back in the 1980s.
In an instant, it changed everything for me.
The secret to attracting love, I discovered, didn't have anything to do with pushing a man's buttons or making him see us in an attractive light.
That's where we were all going wrong.
Most dating advice wrongly assumes that you need to DO something or CHANGE something about yourself to be more attractive to men.
Actually, you don't need to convince men of ANYTHING.
Putting too much energy and attention into attracting men can actually achieve the opposite.
So what does it really take to turn your luck in love around?
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In my latest ebook, I take my readers on an emotional journey.
We travel through our thoughts, feelings, and past heartbreak to find the root of our issues with men.
It's a journey of discovery, and it's not always easy. It can be hard to look inside and see the truth of what you feel.
It can be hard to face up to who you've always been and who you've always wanted to be.
But nothing good ever comes without a little hard work, does it?
My course will take you to a place where you finally feel happy with yourself, happy with your life, and wholly, completely loved.
Would you like to go there with me?
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by Amy Waterman
You're tired of being alone. You want to meet someone.
But you just can't be bothered with the effort it takes.
Why give up your comfy evenings at home for a cold bar and nervous conversation? Besides, your life is just fine as it is. You don't "need" a man to be happy.
Hello! My name is Amy Waterman.
And I've got a book that you just might be interested in.
It's a program designed specifically for women who've had a little "life experience" under our belts!
We women don't always realize it, but we have a lot going for us: maturity, wisdom, and life experience, to name but a few.
But when it comes to meeting men, we tend to think that we're operating at a disadvantage.
We think that something about us puts men off.
If it's not our weight, it's our age. If it's not our previous marriage, it's the fact that we have kids. Anyway, all the good men our age have already been taken, so there's no use trying, is there?
We've got a LOT of reasons to avoid trying to meet men. We're good at convincing ourselves that we can't be bothered with dating.
I've got to be honest with you.
Those excuses just don't cut it.
You may have 101 reasons that you're still single, but I'm not believing any of them.
The REAL reason you're still single ... is because YOU want to be.
The fact is: if you really wanted to be in a relationship right now, you'd be in one.
But I suspect - and this is only a hunch - that you have a lot of fear inside where relationships are concerned.
I think you're worried about putting yourself out there...
Worried about getting hurt...
Worried about what will happen when a man sees the "real you"...
Worried about what you'll have to give up if you meet someone.
There's nothing "wrong" with those fears. Everyone has them.
But you'll only hold yourself back if you allow your fears to affect how you live your life.
Are you tired of being on your own all the time?
Do you ever want to lean on a man’s strong shoulders and let him carry part of the burden … but you’re scared to, because you worry that the moment you lean on him, he’ll step away and let you fall to the ground?
If you answered yes, I have good news.
My program, MIND MAKEOVER: Use Inner Game to Get the Guy, is designed to help women who feel stuck in their love life.
If you've ever felt that you're doomed to be on your own forever, then this course will help you BREAK through those barriers keeping you single.
It's based on the Four Pillars, which are four foundational principles that will keep you strong, loving, and 100% irresistible.
Master these Four Pillars, and you'll irresistibly attract anyone you come in contact with, not just men!
That's because my system helps you rebuild your life from the inside out, starting with your thoughts and feelings about men and relationships.
When you've got a good solid emotional foundation, your ability to flirt and make small talk with men flows naturally. You don't even have to think about it!
One thing is certain:
If you don't change something now, your life is never going to change.
You can't just sit back and wait for Prince Charming to come knocking on your front door.
Love doesn't come knocking. YOU have to invite it in.
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Take that first step towards change. Open up those doors to love. And I promise:
You'll never look back.
by Amy Waterman
You may not realize it, but you have an advantage where men are concerned.
It's called "Life Experience," and most of us women have got it in spades.
Life experience can’t be bought. You can only get it through living, loving, getting hurt, getting back up again, and loving some more.
Sure, there are lots of people out there who study love, and they’ll tell you that you need to do all sorts of things to get a man’s interest: you have to mirror his body language, understand his psychological triggers, read his subtle subconscious cues, and so forth.
But you've managed to meet men in the past without jumping through all those hoops.
Maybe you've even managed to get married and have kids without needing to know a thing about "psychological triggers"!
Which brings up a very interesting question...
Why do you HAVE to work so hard at meeting men?
Can't it just happen naturally?
Is it really necessary to change who you are just to catch a man’s eye? Surely you should be able to attract men by just being YOU.
After all, “being you” works for you. You like who you are. You don’t have the time or energy to change yourself for a man, even if he does look like Brad Pitt. (Well, there are always exceptions!)
Trying to date according to the "latest expert advice" isn't easy. All too often, it adds pressure to our already burdened lives.
It’s tough when you expect a lot of yourself.
The sad thing is: we all do it. We expect ourselves to be Superwoman. We have to be the perfect mother to our children and the perfect daughter to our parents. We have to be the perfect friend and the perfect employee. We have to keep up on the latest news and keep our weight down and keep ourselves healthy and find time for ourselves in the midst of it all.
We put a LOT of pressure on ourselves.
Then, when we start looking at our love life (or lack thereof), it all seems too much.
With everything else going on in our lives, do we really have to find the time to socialize just so that we can meet men and waste our time having dinner with someone we’re not even the least bit attracted to? Come on!
You don't need more advice.
Life experience has already taught you everything you need to know about how to "catch a man's eye," and you're SO over that.
The more you live, learn and love, the more you realize that “catching a man” is a bit silly.
Sure, all that flirtation and romantic intrigue is fun and helps you feel good about yourself, but in the end it rarely goes where you want it to go.
These days, you’re less interested in fooling around and more interested in sharing your life with someone.
You’ve just got to find the right man.
Someone who’s interesting, easy on the eyes, fun to be with – who’s also decent, honest, and stable. Someone who’s not going to take your heart and run with it.
Actually, forget the man.
What you really need is a fairy godmother to wave her magic wand over you and instantly manifest your ideal relationship with your perfect mate!
I wish with all my heart that I could solve all your relationship worries with one swish of my pen and a “Bippity-boppity-boo!”
But I can’t.
Instead, what I CAN do for you is give you a one-of-a-kind makeover that will help you relax around men, enjoy yourself more, feel more confident, and have more faith in the future.
It's all in my brand-new course, MIND MAKEOVER: How to Use Inner Game to Get the Guy. [Link this to https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=YourIDHere&vendor=wwords&tid=YourTracking&type=cloaked]
Forget about endless rules, techniques, strategies and psychological games.
Forget about feeling inadequate, awkward, or inauthentic.
Forget about working hard just to meet men you're not interested in anyway.
This is about attracting men simply by being WHO YOU ARE...
And not what someone else thinks you should be.
Does that sound good to you? If so...
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